Kindness begets kindness; similarly, nonchalance brings about a little nudging, then nonchalance. Some people observe the 3-times rule - ask a girl out once, she says no, we try again. Ask a girl out consecutively for the third time, if she says no once more, there is no more questions asked. So ladies, be coy, but don't stretch it.
They say, treat a girl too well and she takes advantage of the situation and you get bullied into submission; treat a girl like a piece of trash and she will cling to you for life. Bullshit, I say. There is always a balance to everything in life - be nice to a lady, she will appreciate it. But of course it wouldn't do to shower her with a Tiffany's every week nor sing love ballads to her every other night, but perhaps the simplest hello, how have you been baby? would have been your life savior for the day.
So, how do you play the dating game? Many often do not realise that the man/woman of their dreams might be way above what the individual is capable of. Obvious example: if you like someone who doesn't breathe down your neck all the time, calls you everyday, smses you ten times a day, you had better like the seemingly-nonchalant, busy bees who will probably sms you to say hello, meet once a week for dinner, and yada yada. Can't handle that? Go back to your "sticky girlfriends".
I am done with my musings for the night. Beauty World will arrive on the next post, if I ever do sit down to it. :)
They say, treat a girl too well and she takes advantage of the situation and you get bullied into submission; treat a girl like a piece of trash and she will cling to you for life. Bullshit, I say. There is always a balance to everything in life - be nice to a lady, she will appreciate it. But of course it wouldn't do to shower her with a Tiffany's every week nor sing love ballads to her every other night, but perhaps the simplest hello, how have you been baby? would have been your life savior for the day.
So, how do you play the dating game? Many often do not realise that the man/woman of their dreams might be way above what the individual is capable of. Obvious example: if you like someone who doesn't breathe down your neck all the time, calls you everyday, smses you ten times a day, you had better like the seemingly-nonchalant, busy bees who will probably sms you to say hello, meet once a week for dinner, and yada yada. Can't handle that? Go back to your "sticky girlfriends".
I am done with my musings for the night. Beauty World will arrive on the next post, if I ever do sit down to it. :)